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Aunty Anne… I have a problem!

Dear Aunty Anne,   To cut a long story short, my partner of 26 years [with whom I have 3 great kids, twin boys at 19 years and 10 year old boy], sleeps all day. He gets up between 3pm and 9pm and smokes cannabis and then goes back to bed. He has a terrible temper and if something is said wrong or goes wrong, he will smash anything in his way. He is always miserable and says it’s because he is depressed but refuses to see a doctor. I want to leave him but I’m not sure what he will do if he is depressed. I couldn’t live…

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Aunty Anne… I have a problem

Dear Aunty, I am 29 with three kids, two of whom have special needs and are a handful. The other is a baby. I have been with their dad for 7 years. In this time he has slept with numerous women and been living constantly with the mother of his older children. I can see most of the time that he doesn’t love me but after all this time I am finding it hard to break free and move on, thinking that if I do, I may lose my chance…

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Aunty Jee… I have a problem

Dear Aunty Jee,  My wife and I have been married for three years and it all started so well, but now it is turning very sour. Whenever we talk, whatever we say, even about domestic matters, if the conversation does not go in my wife’s favour, she goes to her room and stays there sulking for days, sometimes for a week, only coming out during the night to visit the loo and to eat. Simple questions such as “Shall we clean out the cupboard under the stairs” – if our views…

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AUNTY JEE… I HAVE A PROBLEM

Hello Aunty Jee! I need a little advice about when I should think about having children with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for over 3 years, lived together for over 2 and are planning to stay together for the long run. The only reason I’m thinking about kids now is that I’m 23, but my boyfriend is 32. I feel like I have quite a few years left before I’d feel like an old mum, but I don’t want them to have a super old dad, either. I’d like us…

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At times, we all need to talk about certain issues and problems that are affecting us. Whether we feel we have an embarrassing medical condition, trying to overcome an addiction or a relationship with our partner that is causing family commotion, Aunty Ji is here to advise you. Whether or not you take my advice on board, I will advise you as to the best of my knowledge and life experience. All letters sent in will remain totally anonymous and I will try to answer as many as I can….

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